tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9037012626199618607.post298315413578730387..comments2022-05-30T17:28:26.686-05:00Comments on The Dreamer and The Realist: Thursday's Child...Ms Dreamerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16140140906016226800noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9037012626199618607.post-85662333588978465292010-05-05T22:51:40.637-05:002010-05-05T22:51:40.637-05:00I totally understand that you don't want child...I totally understand that you don't want children, and I think it's awesome and incredibly brave that you are totally upfront and honest about what is best for you. I didn't want kids either. Now I can't imagine my life without them. I am SO not saying that forced motherhood is the right choice for you OR the choice you should make. I'm just saying that if you did, it might not end up being the worst thing in the entire world. There is huge satisfaction that can come from creating a great life for a little person. It would be giving up yourself for the betterment of someone else, and that is incredibly powerful. But incredibly overwhelming. I trust that you will do what is best for everyone. That stupid old cliche "if it's meant to be..." is unfortunately very correct sometimes.<br /><br />As for them and their wedding, well, excuse my french but fuck them and fuck that. If they can't be decent human beings and do the right thing for the amazing life that they created they don't deserve shit. It truly isn't that hard to be a good person and do right by your children. For example, see: me. <br /><br />I love you lady, and if you ever need to talk, you know where to find me!Kishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02728226025984398739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9037012626199618607.post-34429726427510289312010-04-30T01:15:59.035-05:002010-04-30T01:15:59.035-05:00A baby can be a difficult adjustment, but its not ...A baby can be a difficult adjustment, but its not impossible. People in worse situations do it all the time.<br /><br />You can still do everything you're doing now, you'd just have to work around certain things. But think of what you'll be doing. You'd be providing a child with a stable family unit, which is something everyone needs, but few actually get.Aprylhttp://ahstudios.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com